The fairer sex do not have it easy when it comes to sex. These days, people get their sex education primarily from porn, and, unfortunately, it’s only when we do it in reality that we discover what “normal” sex is like. That’s why communication is so important.
Straight women statistically have the fewest orgasms, and studies have shown that 75% can’t achieve an orgasm through penetration alone. If you’re a man and want to take your lady on a first class trip to Pleasure Town, you’re going to have to make foreplay your priority.
These are the 15 things women hate men doing during sex…
1. Confusing porn for real-life sex
Unless you’re a god amongst men, no babysitter or attractive college teacher is going to seduce you on the spot. As for penetration making a woman scream the house down, well, it doesn’t happen. Women’s skin isn’t always as smooth as dolphins either. Hair happens.
2. Pushing her head towards your penis
You might enjoy oral sex, but pushing your partner’s head towards your phallus isn’t going to entice her into sucking it. Don’t be aggressive. If a woman wants to pleasure you orally, she’ll do it in her own time, and there will be no risk of her biting your c*ck.
3. Stopping sex when you’ve orgasmed
Even if a woman is able to orgasm from penetrative sex, it’s more than likely that it will take her longer to climax than you. So if you orgasm before her please for the love of God don’t stop sex. You might be flaccid, but there’s plenty of thing you can still do to give her the Big O.
4. Going straight for her clit
Congratulations! You know where the clitoris is! But don’t head straight for it. It’s one of the most sensitive parts of a woman’s body, and if you want to stand a strong chance of making your partner orgasm, you’ll need to tease her first. There’s no need to rush sex.
Another point worth noting is that every clitoris is different. You might have had a technique that drove your ex girlfriend wild, but it has absolutely no effect on your new beau. So don’t be shy – ask your partner what she likes. She’ll thank you for it.
5. Don’t be too aggressive
Women don’t just hate men being aggressive when it comes to oral sex. They hate it when you’re too aggressive with their breasts as well. Boobs are sensitive, and as much as you might want to squeeze them hard, it’s more than likely that you’ll hurt your partner in the process.
6. Complaining about condoms
You might hate wearing condoms, but until you and your partner are in a monogamous relationship and have both been tested for STIs, they’re a good shout. No one wants herpes. Also, stealthing. It’s a form of rape. Don’t even think about doing it.
7. Taking out your dick too soon
Women hate it when they’re making out with a man, and he immediately unzips his pants and pulls out his penis. Seriously. You’ll know when the time is right. A little anticipation goes a long way when it comes to making the sweet lovins!
8. Talking like a dominant
We get it. You’ve seen some aggressive porn, and you think that calling your partner a “dirty little sl*t” will turn her on. But unless she asks to be verbally dominated, don’t do it. It’s not only degrading, but it makes you look like a twat.
Another thing that might come as a surprise to many men is that women watch porn. At the end of the day, it’s a means to an end. So if you’ve been inspired by it, why not bring it up with your partner? Chances are she’ll understand. It’s all about communication.
9. Not cuddling after sex
There’s nothing worse than sharing an intimate moment with someone and then having them leave straight afterwards. Even if you’re having a one night stand, at least have the courtesy to hang around for a few minutes for a cuddle!
10. Don’t play dead when she’s on top
Women might be doing the majority of the work when they’re on top, but that doesn’t mean you should lie there like a dead starfish. You wouldn’t like it if she did the same thing in the missionary position. It really does take two to tango.
11. Getting angry when you can’t make her climax
It takes patience and skill to make most women climax, but sex can still be enjoyable even if a woman doesn’t have the Big O. If you’re unable to make it happen, please don’t get angry. Learn from the experience and move on.
12. Make sure you have a garden and not a jungle
Most men prefer women to be clean shaven downstairs and whilst men are, generally speaking, expected to have a little fuzz, no woman wants to be with a man who has a full on jungle. A little trimming will do wonders for your sex life – and it’ll make your di*k look bigger!
It’s scientifically proven that sex is good for you. In fact, if you manage to take your lady to Pleasure Town, you’ll be lowering her risk of heart disease, breast cancer, and depression! So communicating with your lady will give her more than just pleasure.
13. Not communicating
Just in case you’ve not been listening – communication is the most important thing during sex. If a woman does something you don’t like, tell her. Even if you’ve got a fantasy, she’ll be open to hearing about it. She’ll probably have some of her own anyway. It’s a two way street.
14. “Is it in yet?”
Women hate men who lack confidence in the bedroom. It’s a complete myth that size matters as well. No matter what size you are, you’ll have a better experience in the bedroom if you’re confident. No woman wants to be with a man who is nervous doing the deed.
15. Being against period sex
Periods are a natural part of being female, and women hate it when men are against period sex. Sure, there’s a little more mess than normal, but sheets can get washed, or, y’know, you can have shower sex. Plus, free lube!
So the next time you get down and dirty with your partner, make sure that you bear the above in mind.